I would not prefer small steps, but I will accept small steps if I think that a big step will eventually come.
Yet, I think that "small step" is defined by the individual.
Personally, I think that this team is monumental steps ahead of where they were 3 years ago. Of course they need to go out and prove that though.
I thought of something over the weekend, and it ties into what you just said.
I think the frequent use of Sparano in this thread has accidentally swerved into an examination of the Dolphins' head coaches since Don Shula.
The Dolphins had an iconic coach in Don Shula. He coached the Fins from 1970-1995, and won only 2 Super Bowls ('72 and '73). He won 5 AFC Championships. Regardless of whether he should have won more SBs, the guy was consistently fielding competitive teams. No team dominates for a span of 25 years. You are bad some years, good some years, and great some years. And some teams like the Bengals and Lions? They've been bad for a loooong time.
But let's examine the HCs for the Dolphins and what they did in the playoffs, since the playoffs seems to be the main attraction here:
1970-1995: Shula coached 31 playoff games and was 17-14 (.548)
1996-1999: Jimmy Johnson coached 5 playoff games and was 2-3 (.400)
2000-2004: Dave Wannstedt coached 3 playoff games and was 1-2 (.333)
2005-2006: Nick Saban went 15-17 in two seasons (.469) &
no playoff games
2007: Cam Cameron went 1-15 (.063) &
no playoff games
2008: Tony Sparano went 11-5 (.688) &
0-1 in the playoffs
Over the 13 years since Shula, the Dolphins have won 3 out of the 6 playoff games they have played. In the past 13 years, they have had 5 different head coaches which averages about one coach every 2 years.
You can go a long time, and change coaches every 2 or 3 years (searching for that special head coach), and really not make very much noise...even if you make the playoffs.
This is one of the reasons I have said that the NFL is different from other sports. In golf and tennis, there are several championships to play for all year long. In NBA, MLB, and NHL, those teams have "best of" series where you can level out a bad game by winning the next game or two (to advance in the playoffs). In the NFL, and even in NCAA football, it's a one-and-you're-done playoff structure. There are no second chances. So, IMO, the NFL is a cold, hard place for coaches, GMs, and players.
I like who we have. Maybe he can deliver, and maybe he won't. But he's done a solid of job of proving that he's no team wrecker. I guess it's time to step away and just see what we have. I think McNair's trigger finger is not as itchy as it would be if we fell below 8-8 this past season. To me, that was a fairly remarkable job by all personnel involved to salvage the '08 season.