I hate it when people make this a deal of needing to be a complete rah-rah homer..or you gotta' be painted as being a naysayer/outlier who has goofy opinions that should be ignored or taken with a grain of salt.
Somewhere in-between is the truth.
So here's my shot at the truth, which is somewhere in-between:
(1.) On one side, thanks for taking the time to tell us more about you and your family. I read all of it, enjoyed all all of it, and it's cool that you would come here and share with us.
(2.) On the other side, you're his mom and we all know that mom's gonna' have our backs through thick and through thin (as they should, by the way!).
The truth (which is sandwiched between #1 and #2 here) is this: Arian is his own man, makes his own decisions, and he's human and gonna' fail like any other mortal man would. Day to day decision-making is inherently rife with plenty of chances to make mistakes. IMO, his mistakes are magnified because of the amount of people "following" him and the success and subsequent fan favor that comes with that. That's not Arian's fault, it's not the public's fault, it just is what it is and it's been that way forever.
I'm entitled to my opinion, as are others, and I don't even recall anybody really "hating" on Arian for his style of communication on the Internets. I've said, and I will maintain and continue to say that anything a person tweets--due to the limited content space you are given on twitter--is going to have a good shot at being misunderstood if it's cryptic in nature or semi-condescending or sarcastic or emotionally-charged, etc. The person automatically leaves it open to interpretation, and I don't buy the horsecrap some people are offering about how it's only the fault of the stupid people who don't know what Arian means in his messages.
To that degree, I think it's shallow for some people to divide everyone involved into groups and paint themselves as being the smart, understanding person and the others as being nitpicking nitwits. Not leveling this charge at you, but at others who seem to find joy in dividing and conquering.
Your son is a great person. He came in as an UDFA, by which he calculated very wisely his chances for making the roster AND earning the starter's role as well. He didn't whine about being undrafted, he didn't try to stir up anything when he was virtually unknown by most fans and the media here. He just stuck it out and kept grinding away. That's what I see in Arian: A guy who is a hard worker, loyal to his own personality and to those who are in his life (such as you), and an incredibly talented running back that we're very lucky to have latched onto!
I hope my post here wasn't scathing. I didn't mean it to be. I just wanted to say that even those who are being critical are being critical for reasons that are not as awful as being painted by others. We all want the same thing: Arian to play well, Texans to win, and everybody celebrate a Lombardi Trophy being hoisted in the air. I hope we all get what we want!