A sister update and thanks

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  1. Texans_Chick

    Texans_Chick Utopian Dreamer

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    A number of you knew that my sister Debby was hospitalized since Thanksgiving of last year, with leukemia and the complications from treatment. She was awake and aware for most of that time, a person trapped in a body that was failing her.

    Last Monday, she died peacefully and with friends. I wrote this Texans-oriented blog post about her, and you can read her obit here.

    I'm am writing this here to thank a ton of you who know who you are who have given the both of us support. (BTW, don't PM me right now--I haven't sorted out my PM box lately and it is an almost full mess).

    Later this season, I was hoping the Blue Crew and Raging Bulls could help me with something. Some of Debby's friends had a fundraiser for her that helped paid for some of her out of pocket medical expenses, her funeral and if any is left over, goes into her daughter's college fund. I auctioned off two VIP tours of the Texans tailgate (VIP ha! Meaning, hey, I'm wandering around the tailgates anyway, why not take someone around with me?). When I know what games they are coming to, I'll let you guys know and I'd like for y'all to give them the bestest that the Texans tailgates have to offer.

    And thanks TexansTalk for being the best distraction out there. When I sat with my sister when she was sleeping, I would make a beeline here first. Texan fans are good peoples.

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  2. GlassHalfFull

    GlassHalfFull Subscribed Contributor

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    Steph, I am so sorry to hear about your sister. I had read the blogs in the past and was worried about what was going on. She was blessed to have such a loving sister. You and your family will be in my prayers.
     
  3. steelbtexan

    steelbtexan Hall of Fame

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    Condolences

    May GOD be with you and your family during these trying times.

    I would love to contribute to any kind of fundraiser.

    PM me with info as it comes available.
     
  4. gary

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    I am very sorry to hear about your sister and will keep you and your family in my thoughts. Hang in there Steph and I'll see you soon. Texans are the best.
     
  5. gwallaia

    gwallaia Moderator Staff Member

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    I am very sorry to hear this Stephanie.

    What a wonderful inspiration she will continue to be for so many people.
     
  6. Honoring Earl 34

    Honoring Earl 34 Hey Koolaid

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    I'm so sorry Steph .
     
  7. jaayteetx

    jaayteetx Hall of Fame

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    So sorry to hear this, my sincere condolences goes out to you and your family.
     
  8. NitroGSXR

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    The Keathleys send their love and condolences.
     
  9. gary

    gary Hall of Fame

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    I just showed this thread to mom and she said if there is anything to do to please let us know. We will help with whatever you need.
     
  10. Drew_Smoke

    Drew_Smoke @Drew_Smoke

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    I am sorry for your loss, ma'am. I hate cancer.


    The VIP Tour idea was pure genius.
     
  11. Tedc

    Tedc Hardheaded

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    Steph,

    We are very sorry to hear about your sister.

    You can count on the Blue Crew for anything. Just let us know when and we will roll out the Red Carpet for any guest you bring.
     
  12. Wolfiegrrl

    Wolfiegrrl Wonder Woman

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    TC,
    I'm sorry to hear about your sister. Only a month ago, I lost my older brother to a motorcycle-deer accident. His death was sudden. I can only imagine what it was like to watch your sister go through her pain over the last several months. My condolences to you and your family in this time of transition.

    Please let me know if there is anything I can do to help. Is there a way to make donations?

    Thanks,
    Wolfiegrrl
     
  13. kermit

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    I am so, so sorry Stephanie. I am sure you did all you could to help.
    My condolences to you and your family. We are all here for you.
     
  14. Vinny

    Vinny shiny happy fan Staff Member

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    my deepest sympathies for your loss Steph. As I get older I appreciate the wonder of life in much more complex ways. I've learned to enjoy people for their uniqueness even more after losing a few loved ones myself. I kinda view good and kind people like flowers now that I'm kinda an old(er) fart now, as the bloom is always too short for the people nearest and dearest to us.
     
  15. Hardcore Texan

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    I am truly sorry to hear about your sister passing away, I had thought about her off and on since your blogged about giving blood and would send up a quick prayer when I did. As some one who has lost 2 siblings, and just recently my dad, I understand some of what you are feeling. Your sister would be proud with how you have honored her memory. Prayers and best wishes to your family.
     
  16. jjjezebel

    jjjezebel ¬°Ay, caramba!

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    Oh Hunny...so sorry to hear about this. Sending you lots of (((HUGS))).
     
  17. WWJD

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    So sorry to hear of your sister's passing.

    God's peace be with you and your family.
     
  18. FirstTexansFan

    FirstTexansFan The Unknown Fan

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    Truly saddened by the loss of your sister TC. It's difficult not to think of the posters here as friends, I wish there was something I could do other than words, but sometimes that's all we have to offer. My sincerest condolences.
     
  19. edo783

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    Sorry to hear of your loss TC. My sincerest condolences.
     
  20. texasguy346

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    I'm so very sorry for your loss TC. May God bless you & your family during such a difficult time. My family & I will keep you in our thoughts & prayers.
     

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