"So, Richie Incognito, is he wrong? Absolutely. But I think the other guy is just as much to blame."
Shouldn't have worn that short skirt!
Oh wait, wrong topic.
Blaming the victim just perpetuates the stupidity.
So where is the line in the sand to stand up for yourself? What if fist fighting Incognito changes nothing? Then what? Bring a knife? Shoot the bastard? What do you do to get a sociopath to leave you alone short of maiming or killing him?