Originally Posted by Honoring Earl 34
Whenever you're in charge , it's gonna cost you .
The folks who ignore what you request or complain about what you request decline to take charge because they're busy .
I don't mind eating the extra cost, but, hypothetically - if the menu is steak then why do you insist on bringing more steak instead of giving me $7? If I didn't think it would just damage friendships I would say great, we said the menu is steak, you brought steak, don't touch all the extra stuff we brough until you pay me the $7 because more steak didn't benefit the group. /rant
I just don't get it. I guess I wrote this post to understand the psyche of the person wanting to bring something that doesn't really benefit the group/fit the menu so I can address the issue???
So if you're the guy who just wants to bring 'something' and refuses to chip in, please tell me why so I can understand and try to fix things