I'll get back with you shortly if you can give me some time to look at my guidelines and think about the sig policy. I lost my wife when she was only 38 myself. I totally understand what you mean by leaving nothing unsaid.

Vinny is there anyway can lengthen my signature? I want to include this.
Loving memories of my wife. Dec 19 1978 - June 8 2008
So some of you understand. I was recently involved in a life changing accident traveling home on interstate 45. A vehicle going southbound went airborne at over a 100 miles an hour landing on top of my truck killing my wife and almost killing me. I did actually die once, but they brought me back. I have paralysis on my left side in which I am going to rehab for. If you have something you wish to say to your spouse, say it today. Leave nothing unsaid.